For over 21 years, I worked as a legal assistant, guiding families through the legal side of losing a loved one—probate, court approvals, and the distribution of assets. On paper, it all looked orderly.
BUT when my own father-in-law passed away, I saw what families truly face behind the scenes.
We were left sorting through his belongings, trying to answer urgent questions: What did he own? Where was it? Who did he owe? Instead of focusing on grieving, we were juggling paperwork, searching for information, and managing chaos—all while working full-time and keeping life on track.
That’s when I made a promise: I would never leave my children with the same burden. I began building a system to keep everything organized and accessible, not just for legal purposes, but for life’s emergencies. Soon, I realized this system wasn’t just for my family—it was something every family needed. That’s how BEFORE YA DIE was born.
BEFORE YA DIE
Phase 1 – I combined two decades of probate experience with my family’s story to write Prevent the Chaos: A Plan to Make Life’s Emergencies (and Your Death) Easier on You and Your Family.
Phase 2 – I worked one-on-one with families, guiding them step-by-step to create their own personalized emergency plans. Because let’s be honest—it’s always easier when someone walks alongside you than when you’re left to figure it out alone.
Phase 3 – Today, I’ve taken the workshop online, making it possible for families everywhere to get their information organized. The self-paced, guided system helps people prepare no matter where they live—bringing peace of mind to anyone ready to take control before the next emergency happens.
PREVENT THE CHAOS BOOK
Are you someone who prefers to take control of your estate planning? If so, my book Prevent the Chaos - A Plan to Make Life's Emergencies (and Your Death) easier on You and Your Family, is the ultimate resource for you.
Say goodbye to confusion and uncertainty, this book provides you with the knowledge and tools you need to craft a plan that reflects your wishes and priorities.
Whether you're a seasoned planner or a beginner, this book is designed to cater to your needs. The subjects are laid out in clear, concise language which leaves reader informed of how to handle these difficult situations
PREVENT THE CHAOS WORKBOOK
For those who like to make their own plans, our workbook Prevent the Chaos - A Plan to Make Life's Emergencies (and Your Death) Easier on You and Your Family, serves as an invaluable companion to the book.
With thought-provoking questions, insightful tips, and practical worksheet. It guides you through the task of collecting and organizing your legal, medical, financial and personal information.
All of which, makes it easier for you and your family to navigate life's emergencies and ensure your wishes are followed.
" Beautifully written with YOU and your loved ones in mind. Get this book before your time is up and follow these easy steps to ensure your family knows what to do before it’s too late. Losing someone you live is hard enough, Katrina’s book helps you, help your family! This book is like insurance, it’s for the ones you leave behind."
" I've been one of the lucky first readers of this incredible book by Katrina Parrish! Not only is she a lovely human, she is the exact lovely human to hold your hand and deliver the tough love needed to help get you prepared so you can have the peace of mind that comes with knowing your family will be protected! Grab a copy and get some of her love and wisdom for yourself! "
" Topics like emergencies and death are often ones we don't talk about. But in the case of Prevent The Chaos, the subjects are laid out in clear, concise language. In reading these pages, the author brings a sense of her experience to the fore, leaving the reader informed of how to handle these difficult situations. This e-book can be a lifesaver and it will be a great service done for it to be read. This is a purchase well spent. ."
"This easy-to-read book is for people of all ages. I will be sharing it with my adult children and soon to be adult child. Nobody wants to think about getting sick, injured or dying. This book makes a scary situation easier on your loved ones because your wishes are spelled out. 100 out of 10 recommend."
" What a blueprint for all the key issues in preparation for the handling of your estate/assets after your death!! There were things in this book I would never have thought about, great information! ."
" This book has SO much helpful information to help navigate touchy and difficult issues regarding financial situations when your loved one is sick, tips to plan ahead, etc. HUGE asset! Wish we had something like this a few years ago, but we have it now !"
"The sooner you get this book, the better for you! So much help! So many things you never think of! I highly recommend this book so you can Prevent the Chaos!! ."