HOW WE BEGAN...AND WHERE ARE NOW
For over 21 years, I worked as a legal assistant, guiding families through the legal side of losing a loved one—probate, court approvals, and the distribution of assets. On paper, it all looked orderly.
BUT when my own father-in-law passed away, I saw what families truly face behind the scenes.
We were left sorting through his belongings, trying to answer urgent questions: What did he own? Where was it? Who did he owe? Instead of focusing on grieving, we were juggling paperwork, searching for information, and managing chaos—all while working full-time and keeping life on track.
That’s when I made a promise: I would never leave my children with the same burden. I began building a system to keep everything organized and accessible, not just for legal purposes, but for life’s emergencies. Soon, I realized this system wasn’t just for my family—it was something every family needed. That’s how BEFORE YA DIE was born.
BEFORE YA DIE
Phase 1 – I combined two decades of probate experience with my family’s story to write Prevent the Chaos: A Plan to Make Life’s Emergencies (and Your Death) Easier on You and Your Family.
Phase 2 – I worked one-on-one with families, guiding them step-by-step to create their own personalized emergency plans. Because let’s be honest—it’s always easier when someone walks alongside you than when you’re left to figure it out alone.
Phase 3 – Today, I’ve taken the workshop online, making it possible for families everywhere to get their information organized. The self-paced, guided system helps people prepare no matter where they live—bringing peace of mind to anyone ready to take control before the next emergency happens.
PREVENT THE CHAOS BOOK
Are you someone who prefers to take control of your estate planning? If so, my book Prevent the Chaos - A Plan to Make Life's Emergencies (and Your Death) easier on You and Your Family, is the ultimate resource for you.
Say goodbye to confusion and uncertainty, this book provides you with the knowledge and tools you need to craft a plan that reflects your wishes and priorities.
Whether you're a seasoned planner or a beginner, this book is designed to cater to your needs. The subjects are laid out in clear, concise language which leaves reader informed of how to handle these difficult situations
PREVENT THE CHAOS WORKBOOK
For those who like to make their own plans, our workbook Prevent the Chaos - A Plan to Make Life's Emergencies (and Your Death) Easier on You and Your Family, serves as an invaluable companion to the book.
With thought-provoking questions, insightful tips, and practical worksheet. It guides you through the task of collecting and organizing your legal, medical, financial and personal information.
All of which, makes it easier for you and your family to navigate life's emergencies and ensure your wishes are followed.
